29/02
Friday, February 29, 2008 @ 11:30:00 PM
leap leap leap. i overheard siew hui saying that it is her birthday to her friends and i did not even consider if it was true. her year is not the leap leap leap. hahaha. it is 1988 and one year younger than me (1992).
i only had econs, maths, chinese and chemistry lectures today. it sounds a short day of 4 hours, but there are 3 hours of break reflected on my timetable. WASTE TIME.
i really envy april. I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE SHORT FRIDAYS WHEN THE PERNAMENT TIMETABLE IS OUT. I WANT TO GO FOR MY NPCC TRAININGS!
i went home, COA, COH, COB and set off to CCHSM. training for the girls for tml 3pm.
woohoo! i have a new tutor. but i am not supposed to consult her if i sleep and miss out the point in lectures. which means i am only supposed to consult her when i do not understand.
which is like duh.
jie blurted something out. LOL.
it is supposed to be a secret. (=
here is a link to a funny video yu rong told me over msn.
Youtube: NTU Student Survey- Funny Commentswhich includes:
roses are red,
violets are blue,
the lesser your hair,
the sexier you get.
AND
no grass on the busy road,
no hair on the clever head.
it all seemed like a pretence to me.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
28/02
Thursday, February 28, 2008 @ 8:42:00 PM
today was my first time drinking the packet version of jasmine green tea!
and do you know why?
coz yjc does not sell the bottled version. x=
yes yes. lectures and lectures. ASSIGNMENTS! they said they are slow. what is their definition of normal AND fast?
56 wordsSpeed test
credits to peixin who credited suriani for the above.
you did not reply me for fear that you will lie?
hahaha. thank you for the wonderful memories. (=
i wonder what you have in mind when you said those things.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
26/02-27/02
Wednesday, February 27, 2008 @ 10:12:00 PM
lectures followed by lectures. i just have to try my best to absorb what are there for me to.
it is tough trying to concentrate while being reminded of you by every single thing in my life.
it is a miracle that my mind can link anything to you and the moments we shared.
it was honestly great enjoyment with you plus the great disappointment.
"nvm, it is alright," i told myself.
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
24/02
Monday, February 25, 2008 @ 7:00:00 PM
first day of official lectures. i am in CTG 120.
just look at me.
i feel that my world now is crashing down into bits,
when things are going in this manner.
life now is a total crap to me.
do you know how much i wish i could,
just make time stop at those happy moments.librans hate to be alone.i hate you. you have ruined ALL my plans and future.当一切的梦想化成虚无飘渺的梦境时。
do you know how much i am willing to sacrifice for you?
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
23/02
Sunday, February 24, 2008 @ 4:00:00 PM
23/02: today is the campcraft competition preliminary round!
i woke up at 0530 when i need to reach everest at 0630. x= i left home at 0555 after a bit of slacking on my bed and then chiong out of house. i enjoyed 20 minutes of sitting before the duty which i did not brace myself to expect.
i took a taxi to HTA, missing a bus and thinking that they will be late. THE TRUTH IS NOT THE CASE. the bus was just in front of my taxi at the HTA bus-stop. it is $5 and i was half-heartbroken. the full impact will come when i realised i have no more money. x=
briefing and a 'PT' worse than those in CIBTC for 11 mornings. i forgot to mention what was the duty which i did not expect. i was under pei en and yong hao until i was posted to lot I/C. it was the most torturous duty, really.
my job scope:
- standardise the placing of the logistics ;
- raising of 3 different flags (red for emergency, yellow for faulty logistics and green for no problems) ;
- looking out for the competitors at my lot which includes:
->feeling the urge to scold them like my cadets for doing the wrong things.
- reporting to the judges ;
- ROTTING DURING JUDGING ;
- replenishing the logistics ;
and then repeating the whole cycle.
*PLUS PLUS PLUS STANDING FOR 3 HOURS AT ONCE.*not including other buffer time.it was so hot and everything that i drank 8 bottles of water from 0630-1900.
and one cup of NICE NICE bubble tea for dinner. ((=
):):
it must be my fault.i have cursed all 9 of you.because i am supporting you guys.it must be my fault. i have cursed all 11 of you. because i am supporting you guys.
i will only do that for you, not for anyone else.
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
22/02
Friday, February 22, 2008 @ 10:50:00 PM
i pushed myself away from the bed at 715 today and went out of the house at 730.
going to a JC which is near your house is good-- convenient, can sleep more etc. but i really feel that my house is RIDICULOUSLY close to YJC. when the lift is operational, it will be even nearer! q=
i went out of school at 2pm to go for npcc. skandan and i were "talked" to by the principal for around 10 minutes. he was basically nagging. the conclusion that skandan and i derived: they want us to be committed to our CCAs while refusing to let us go for the trainings. x=
i went to CCHSM today. it was really a long bus ride and long walk from the bus stop. the school is gigantic and rather "well-hidden". hahaha. fenced up with greeneries all over it.
it was a totally different experience for me. different cultures, different working partners and of course the sec 4s' different way of debrief. hahaha. interesting, interesting.
tml is the camp craft competition preliminary rounds for the males!
remember the safety breaches- throwing of bricks and pegs. no more parallax errors please. your timing is also important too! no one will be there to prompt all of you tml! please remember what i told all of you today! it is the time to clinch a UOPA Gold.
the amount of strength to use in order not to snap the twine. the lashings and clove hitches for the flagstaff. it is your UOPA Gold to sustain! not mine, not the Instructors, nor the Officers anymore.i am lost for words when i saw you.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
21/02
Thursday, February 21, 2008 @ 11:39:00 PM
today was the second day of YJC's orientation! woots. all in OG 19 are fun alright!
OGLs: MURALI, ROMAN AND SIEW HUI!
OGPs: buvenes, don, donovan, guiqin, hafizah, huimin, humaira, jacinth, jiawen, kaili, kaisheng, kamesh, matthew, melissa, mokthar, muthu, ranjani, sarah, shanwen, skandan, wenyan, yangjie, yixiang and of course, ZHUANG YI.
i shall upload photos when we have our OG photo-taking. woots!
this whole issue is like what mas has said, it is getting more and more complicated.
it is going to be very ugly, i guarantee.
where can i get my confidence back?
will there be anyone who can aid me?
i know it is difficult but how to proceed?
do you care?patiently awaiting the day. ((:
20/02
Wednesday, February 20, 2008 @ 6:48:00 PM
you humiliated me, and you are not getting away until you pay for it.20/02: FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL! hahaha.
it was always me planning and being the "buddy" and not the participant. orientation was yeah. the lectures part was stressful. the speed the lecturers are going seems to be telling me that i have made the wrong choice- as in i am not suited for a JC education.
tml will be more fun! with the games with OG and cca tryouts. (=
the smiley face only applies to the games. i am not going to join any cca at YJC. i am putting UG as my cca. if lessons are going to end at 4 everyday, i can never return to my unit
(whichever it is).
tired and hungry. i slept for only 3 hours and is still slight feverish. i skipped dinner again. =D i reckon i am going to sleep soon, given that my shopping bags and eyelids are so heavy. =.=
majority of my surroundings remind me of you.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
19/02
Tuesday, February 19, 2008 @ 10:29:00 PM
i reluctantly pulled myself out of bed again, receiving 2 smses from valerie and vernicia asking where i am posted to. i visited my email and moe website but both seemed to be useless. vernicia asked for my ic number and checked for me.
i am posted to yishun junior college everyone.
and that is my first choice.
i went to work and it is last day of freedom. same job scope. i left at 1630 and went to old PA, realising that they have enough help. i took bus 167 to sembawang to find my prince bag. but they said they do not have it. i returned to yishun and went to popular. blah blah blah.
a miracle happened! i went home, without dinner, changed into some stupid knee length shorts and went for a jog at the park under my block FOR THE FIRST TIME. woah! it was around 2.5km and i jogged in about 15 minutes' time. am i that fast? hahaha. i jogged instead of running like how i did during 2.4km run back in ytss.
10 people have told me to fight back, i did not. i do not want things to sour but you are the one who started it. you made things to be so sour between us. you asked for it, not me. i talked to you nicely. i went down to school to find you, smsed you nicely in a soft manner. you should know what you replied.yes, i admit. it is my fault for not stopping you and informing you. BUT WILL YOU LET ME GO EVEN IF I HAD STOPPED YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE? everyone knows the answer: NO! lastly, i will never use "stubborn" to describe you, coz that is what me and her described each other. i will just use others- egoistic, made use of us to get you fame, glory and reputation, when you have none.
i think i am having a fever now. my thermometerS totally have no battery strength in them. i just downed myself with 4 bottles of 0.5l water and going to continue to down with more bottles. my mum just forced me to eat the tom yam noodles. well. it is going to worsen my fever, i know.
i know it is my decision and not an excuse.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
18/02
@ 12:00:00 AM
18/02: i dragged myself reluctantly out of bed at 9 am in the morning for work at jessica's place. i scolded her before i could see her. hahaha. i asked which button and all she said was, that button, that button. there were more than 10. x= hahaha.
my work is mainly dealing with database: keying in, transferring and filing. the pay is not bad too. (= lots of benefits for this temporary job. first benefit goes to my wallet! =D hahaha. it is more than 6 per hour. secondly, it would be my new found experience. i have learnt a simple but totally essential work- database! thirdly, i am forced to wak up early- healthy lifestyle hor. hahaha.
i walked all the way to far east to take a bus to old PA. i did not participate in the qc this time round. i only coiled the ropes up. that question did not come out from my mouth as smoothly as how i had imagined it. i am useless; only my imginative brain is good at deceiving myself.
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i am finally done with what i have planned to. =D i wonder how long will this face lasts. let me just hope and pray for the better and wanted results!
oh yes. JAE results will be out in like 8 hours' time? and school starts tml for me! NO! i have yet to enjoy. LOL. nvm. i shall start school earlier and end my tertiary education within two years than 3.
my bag. my prince bag. my wanted bag. my desired bag. i am starting to hate those staff. lousy service, thank you very much. i think i am going to put up a "missing notice" to find that bag. x=
everyone, if you see this bag selling at any sports link or royal sporting house, please tell me!
how should i face you?
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
15/02-17/02
Sunday, February 17, 2008 @ 10:39:00 PM
15/02: i went to school to find mr soh and then proceeded to somerset for survey briefing. lalala. i took the train from somerset to cck. it was a long ride, (but definitely shorter than yours).
chui is the word to describe my day.
either the 4 of us or the 3 of you have failed them.
i have to accept the fact you cannot be around for me for all the times when i am down.
i am already glad that you were with me before.
16/02: i woke up reluctantly at 820 and then went to YTSS to help to build the structure for UG open house on next friday. i wonder how much determination i must have to wake at 630 everyday for school which is starting on next tuesday.
i have to thank firstly, joe for buying all the gloves. although we did not wear them for the first 3/4 of the day, but if he had not bought them, jacqueline will not have the strength to pull the structure back and saved my pathetic life. coz i was so retarded untying the tent guy loop.
secondly i have to thank jacqueline. coz like what i have just said, she pulled the structure back.
thirdly, i am thanking all the others who rushed to grab the structure.
i met yiling, tricia, merlin and candy at the interchange to xinghui's house again. this time round, i tried banluk and mahjong. fun fun fun!
17/02: i could not sleep but i was extremely tired. I HAD WEIRD NIGHTMARES
AGAIN. contents unsuitable to reveal to anyone. hahaha.
i lau-ed yu sheng at my house then went to my grandparents' house to lau yu sheng again. yeah yeah! two servings of yu sheng in my tummy now.
one strange thing happened: pang zhuang yi did not eat more than a bowl's serving of rice and a bowl's serving of ingredients. i only had one small bowl of rice PLUS all the ingredients.
i know you want me to learn.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
ARGH.
Thursday, February 14, 2008 @ 4:15:00 PM
seriously what has become of this school? the fantastic teachers have left, not one, not two. if you know, you count it on your own. how can you just let so many fantastic teachers leave at a time? are you brainless? autonomous status? kma.
are people like me going back to clear up the mess that the teachers created? you made him angry and you threw me and rahimi to clean up the situation. thank you very much. it took me SO long to experience what they have warned me. btw.
to the two of you: have you ever wondered how your students and people like me will feel and experience? COME ON. be decisive. just cancel the whole idea of gaining the honour and glory from the students and not thank them. gad.
if i had known earlier that you were going to do that, i would rather i only told you that rahimi was posted to opss and not my case of being posted to cchms. honestly speaking, i rather i sacrifice my sleep and everything, to go to cchms. iihke.
you really made a great significance to 14/02/08. tmd.
14/02
@ 2:08:00 PM
happy valentine's day to everyone.
i have a big, big plan now- 100% nothing to do with vday.
i really hope he will just accept my argument.
plans for later:
- polish my boots.
- prepare uniform.
- points to bring up for the "debate".
- prepare for tml's training.
i am anxious.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
13/02
Wednesday, February 13, 2008 @ 11:35:00 PM
i woke up as early as 10am (really early to me) and went to meet yiling and jermaine to go to xing hui's house. yiling lied to me- she said his parents will not be at home, so no need to bring oranges.
we committed a "crime" today. my first time wor. hahaha. jermaine really shocked me outside the jewellery shop. i really blabbered those in shock, not in purpose to scold hor. hahaha.
qc-ing the poles AND uncoiling, measuring, cutting, qc-ing, taping, coiling and simple coiled the manila hemp today. woots! it was again lots of fun today! i also realised something- pei en is extremely dangerous with the saw. i only looked at her for THAT one minute and i was appalled.
hahaha. chim usage of english language.
i saw something in the uopa. maybe i can try to persuade someone?
sometimes, it boils down to, "is there REALLY a difference?"
i guess, it is really not up to us? haha?
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
12/02
Tuesday, February 12, 2008 @ 10:56:00 PM
today was fun, measuring manila hemp again (LOL) and qc-ing the poles. even sabrina was laughing at me.
hey, that was for tml's convenience's sake and not today's joke.
btw, i saw this on becky's blog. i was amazed. you may doubt that i cheated or whatever, so be it.
Free-IQTest.net -
IQ Testmy fate is in your hands, joyclyn.
can you tell me what to do?patiently awaiting the day. ((:
10/02-11/02
Monday, February 11, 2008 @ 11:25:00 PM
10/02: i went to my mum's boss' house with her and my uncle's family. bungalowS in jalan kalichap (should be spelt like that). we then returned to my house. blah blah. i ate cny goodies while watching the making of CJ7. after that they went to my aunt's house and i went to april's. steamboat for dinner again! woots!
mahjong, dai di and ban lak (whatever and however they are spelt).
11/02: i went out with vernicia and doreen to plaza singapura. vernicia was irritated with doreen's a-long a-long, a-long a-long...
hahaha. coz doreen has just watched the movie yesterday thus she is still having the song in her mind. vernicia was also fed up coz i joined doreen in that. rofl.
in the end, we did not enjoy ben's and jerry. we did not eat whatever the cuisine that doreen wanted. all we had were: mac, some window shopping at the shops (except daiso) and CJ7! woots! alright, i admit. some bit of gossiping. hahaha.
sentence of the day:
vernicia: wdnsn. it is not very convenient to say here.
doreen: a-long a-long, a-long a-long...
mine!: tao hua jie la.
i reached home, made phone calls to confirm things and polished my belt and boots (very shiny now). =D my pride. hahaha.
ccc helpouts on tue, wed, thu.
third npap training on fri.
first trip to unit on sat!
you are the reason why i do things.
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
07/02-11/02
Sunday, February 10, 2008 @ 12:30:00 PM
long time since i last posted. coz laptop has been moved into the room and it is kind of inconvenient to use it.
07/02: i went to my paternal uncle's house in cck. we took a lift in my uncle's car. we had steamboat for dinner! yums. (= after dinner, it was time for tv + chinese new year goodies and then gambling. hahaha. a chinese new year is not a proper one without greetings (and some kpo-ing of course!) mandarin oranges, sumptuous dinners, cny GOODies, ang paos and some gambling. =D
08/02: i went to my maternal grandparents' house in bukit panjang. i had lunch then went to uncle's house. i had a talk with my uncle and then gambled a little again. hahaha. i had dinner and then gambled again. blah blah. i then went home.
09/02: i went to my gu po's house and then aunt's house. hbo channel is so much kinder than channel 5. hahaha. on third day of new year, it featured the goblet of fire (4th) while on first day of cny, channel 5 featured sorcerer's stone (1st).
i wonder who from d07 are not posted back to their alma mater.
i wonder if i have done right.
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
07/02
Thursday, February 7, 2008 @ 12:00:00 AM
happy chinese new year to everyone!
wishing all that i know (including those i do not really like XD):
a happy chinese new year.
may this year will be better for all of you,
all things run smoothly (for this, can exclude those i do not like. LOL)
and best of health! =D
NOT FORGETTING,
loads of fortune!
HUAT AR!
(=
and as i was telling peixin and vernicia, i am dying soon.
(many must be cheering right? good riddance anyway.)
i once had you in my arms.
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
06/02
Wednesday, February 6, 2008 @ 1:00:00 AM
happy birthday to connie and wei shen!
i have been looking in my phone to search for any incomplete tasks, but apparently i could not find any. usually i will be happy since i will be free. but now, i felt that it is really time for me to go.
i have no determination in front of or towards my love, but i can command all the determination i have, just for my love.
you have already robbed me of my heart and soul.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
05/02
Tuesday, February 5, 2008 @ 10:36:00 PM
it is a
(:(: day.
i felt nervous until i am comfortable.
i have so much to say to you,
but time seldom permits.
what you said, really hurts btw.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
reason why and over you.
Monday, February 4, 2008 @ 1:14:00 PM
i realised one of my blog posts went missing.
the one with lyrics of
reason why. nvm.
lyrics of
reason why by the
click five.
Yesterday, I waited for your friends to walk away
So I could say just what I mean
I know we're moving fast
(We're) Running from the past
I'm holding on before it fades away,
Could it be that...
Maybe it's our first mistake
And baby that's alright
It's crazy how we lost ourselves tonight
There's a reason why they
Say that we should give it time
But time is not enough
And that's the reason why
When you're young you fall in love
Standing still, I'm waiting 'round to see if this is real
Cause I feel like I'm asleep
I'll open up my eyes
Cause you might be the type
Of girl that makes me dream when I'm awake
Could it be that...
Maybe it's our first mistake
And baby that's alright
It's crazy how we lost ourselves tonight
There's a reason why they
Say that we should give it time
But time is not enough
And that's the reason why
When you're young you fall in love
So tell me can this really work
Or will we end up getting hurt
Is this love a myth
So tell me are you in for this
There's so much more than we can see
More than you, more than me
It takes two to believe
Maybe it's our first mistake
And baby that's alright
It's crazy how we lost ourselves tonight
Maybe it's our first mistake
And baby that's alright
It's crazy how we lost ourselves tonight
There's a reason why they
Say that we should give it time
But time is not enough
And that's the reason why
When you're young you fall in love
And that's the reason why
When you're young you fall in love
And that's the reason why
When you're young you fall in love
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over you by
daughtry.
Now that it's all said and done,
I can't believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down,
Like an old abandoned house.
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath.
I fell too far, was in way too deep.
Guess I let you get the best of me.
Well, I never saw it coming.
And I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
From spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.
You took a hammer to these walls,
Dragged the memories down the hall,
Packed your bags and walked away.
There was nothing I could say.
And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for me.
Well, I never saw it coming.
And I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
From spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.
Well, I never saw it coming.
And I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
Well, I never saw it coming.
And I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
From spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
Well I'm putting my heart back together,
'Cause I got over you.
Well I got over you.
I got over you.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.
i need to see you soon.patiently awaiting the day. ((:
02/02-03/02
Sunday, February 3, 2008 @ 11:10:00 PM
i forgot to include this in my previous entry.
i will not let you affect my mood.
02/02: i woke up at 7 and got ready by 720 to meet the rest at 730. we went for area 2 AGM and it was not as how i had imagined. i had not imagined the hotness and stuffiness, the quiet and the ambience. cool things happened too (rahimi and mas will know). =D
it only lasted for an hour and we went back to the unit. mysterious training of the sec 3s. when a man (heard from cheryl they were having lessons) came out and told nicholas that he was loud (when he was not even shouting commands), i was half shocked? before the man came out, i was shouting at the sec3s. when i say "shouting", i really shouted.
hahaha?camp craft teams are having combined components training. SLACK, they are still slack. why is it that when many CIs, HOs, TOs and even OC staring at them, they cannot do it good? within timing is good, but what if they need time to touch up? gosh. 8 and 10 minutes for the males and females respectively should be
their aim.
mas and i did a flagstaff together again, with our
rusty skills after 2 years, within 12.21 minutes. it is of a not bad standard. as it was raining (not drizzling), the pegs half came out. and of course, we did it in a competition mindset and our WHITE CADET
INSPECTOR shirt got dirty. x=
i must really emphasize on RUSTY after TWO years. coz obviously there are people who do not understand or could not get it.03/02: happy birthday to catherine and jeremy!
i woke up at 5+ suddenly, saw her reply and i went back to sleep again. hahaha. what do you expect from me? i am as pig as forever. i woke up at 6+ coz of my forgot-to-switch-off alarms. i finally woke up at 11 and had lunch.
i watched 300 for the first time, although the boys have been watching it more than 4 times during the 2d1n of the chalet, considering i am sure they did not watch it during 1d1n. hahaha. my sister told me she understood when the boys enjoyed watching it. hahaha.
it is a good movie. not those parts, but the english and literature skills they used. FANTASTIC.
i went to my grandparents' house, had some food then proceeded to queensway to get me NEW shoes for cny. i got a new bermudas too. (= 49.90 is a little expensive though. hahaha. kfc 2 piece chicken meal for dinner and watched final destination 2.
everything is destined, unless you attempt to change it.
this is what i gathered from the movie. poor people dying from falling staircase, exploding bbq pits, explosions and stuff. aiyo. i went to joel's blog and viewed the video they featured after POP of 73rd Batch Of Cadet Inspectors' Basic Training Course.
this time, i viewed it with a totally different mood and of course, different attire. hahaha. i still remembered all of us were in SMART NUMBER 1s, donning the rank of Cadet Inspector and cheering for our squads. if anyone from BRAVO appeared on the screen, all of us will shout, "BRAVO!" and then other squads copied us.
now then i saw all the weird photos, especially the instructors, especially BRAVO instructors. hahaha. totally cool!
going out to shop with buddy and sandy tml.
oh i forgot to mention i have a new buddy. hahaha. he is a
nice chat mate you know!
going out to shop on tuesday too.
totally anticipating that! (=
i have no idea and i need more.
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
01/02
Friday, February 1, 2008 @ 10:13:00 PM
happy birthday to rahimi and lois!
NPAP training today. cadets' drills have improved slightly, but still not there yet, as usual? hahaha. it is really fun to teach. hahaha. i think i am crazy to say that. although their drills really cannot make it at times, seeing them improve, is really a great satisfaction.
all the little actions actually show the intense bias. you have been harping on that matter for such a long while. do you think i really want to be like that?
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i would really appreciate it if you could just reply. i do not mind if you do not want it, but let me know! you complain when you know nothing, but when people tell you, you ignore the information. so whose fault is it?
"The term R.S.V.P. comes from the French expression "répondez s'il vous plaît", meaning "please respond". If R.S.V.P. is written on an invitation it means the invited guest must tell the host
whether or not they plan to attend the party. It does not mean to respond only if you're coming, and it does not mean respond only if you're
not coming (the expression "regrets only" is reserved for that instance). It means the host needs a definite head count for the planned event, and needs it by the date specified on the invitation."
-excerpt from
http://entertaining.about.com/cs/etiquette/qt/tip122500.htmi did not just realise that i need you.
patiently awaiting the day. ((:
